It appears these days that being human is more about being secure and safe and not changing.  Every day the same old crap is repeated on tv, repeats of family guy for the 20thnth time that week, yet everyone seems to love it because they know exactly whats coming they know it word for word, I couldnt think of anything more boring, okay the first time while its fresh maybe it might get a bit of a snigger or a smile, but the umpteenth time its just brainwashing dullness and I dont want to see rehashed jokes repeated.  Most of the comedy on it is cheep digs anyway.  Also people like to all congregate in a public area where there are lots of other people around because it makes them feel safe.  It does appear human nature is just to feel safe and secure in everything and not be challenged.

Of course there are different people out there, listen to music styles, the norm is repetitive beats with repetitive singing with a repeated chorus, people like these as they know the chorus which is repeated and they know whats coming, but some other music styles like goth focus on being unrepetitive and having riffs which change and vary all the time.  Which makes you wonder if you truly could judge someone completely based on thier taste in music or tv etc.

I dont know but I think dating a psycho changed me, I find myself less tolerable of certain types of people.  After all most people are intollerable and see someone different and have to set out to destroy them to feel safe and secure with the same old clone repeat brainless individuals amongst them.